F is for Flowers

 I admitted the other day that I am now that lady…the garden lady. I guess you just become the age when growing things besides children is rewarding. I full accept this label. I do refuse to put the word old in front of the title though. I am not the old garden lady. 

Flowers make me happy. So, Fridays are for flower highlights. 

Today’s flower is sunflower. I have allowed the sunflowers to reign over my front yard. Some people may think they are weeds, but they are sunshine to my soul and I have allowed them to plant themselves at will this year. The bright golden blossoms make me smile whenever I am coming or going from home. 

What is your favorite flower?

T is for True Confessions!

 Sometimes our souls just need to get things out that we have been holding secret.  True confessions are just what they sound like...you confess something true about yourself.

Here are five of my true confessions:

1. I hate onions.  They are gross.  Recently, I have heard they are great for gut health, but guess what...I still don't want to eat them.  Crunchy...yuck, cooked and slimy...bigger yuck.  Fried in the shape of a ring...tempting.

2. I sometimes swear.  I wish I could say I only use one or two of the mild ones.  I think my over-exposure to teen swearing in my job has ruined me.  I only swore about 5 times today.  I am working on it.

3.  I may have a hat collecting problem.  I have thirty hooks holding hats in my room.  Those hooks don't even hold all my hats, just the ones I wear most often.

4. I am a burper.  I try to be dainty about it in public, but when just around family(or friends I am comfortable with)...BURP!

5. I leave piles of dishes in the sink until they actually begin to bug me.  The bugging usually doesn't come until we are out of forks or plates.

So...your turn...what are three of your true confessions?  (Notice I am nice and let you off the hook with only three!)

W is for Wanderlust

 Wanderlust: the desire to travel the world. 

Where in the world do you want to go?

I have been to a few places outside of the United States, and I loved it. If I had the budget for it, I would love to see more of Europe, especially Italy and the Nordic countries. I have seen bits of Russia, England and Scotland. 

My itch to travel was sparked by my mother. She had the opportunity to travel a bit for work and I was able to tag along. My first trip was to Los Angeles followed by a trip to Ft. Lauderdale. The two things I remember from those trips were The Dodger game with my cousin mentioned in an earlier post and a Bart Simpson outfit bought in Florida. 

Another one of my mom’s work trips brought us to Phoenix. My sister joined us and we still talk about that trip. The memories with my mom are cherished now that she has been gone for nearly four years. The trip to Arizona I was in the middle of  summer, so naturally it was hot. When out for adventures, my mom would always have something to say about how hot it was. Apparently, I got a bit cheeky about hearing her complaints and told my sister that I was going to move to Phoenix when I was done with college. Andi and I were talking about that trip a few weeks ago when I was visiting Wisconsin. What great memories were made with my mom. I am very grateful for each trip with her and for the spark she ignited in me to travel more. 

I have shared this love of travel with my own children as well. We recently went to Bryce Canyon National Park and Cedar Breaks National Monument. The views are breathtaking and we enjoyed our little adventure together  

Ellis has his very own national park passport and he started collecting stamps when we were in San Francisco a few years ago. I love seeing his excitement for each new stamp and each new adventure. He actually bought his own passport stickers this time. It’s fun to see what he values. I like to think I ignited his wanderlust by making the roadtrip to Wisconsin each summer an experience filled with exciting stops. He still loves Mt. Rushmore and has made me promise we will road trip to a Wisconsin again before he graduates high school. He also has great apparitions to visit Japan  

Zarah is always up for adventure too. She may not ever know truly where we are but she always enjoys adventure and spending time with her family! She hopes to one day visit Australia. 🇦🇺 I have no clue where that desire comes from but I’m going to blame the cartoon Bluey for now. 

Be sure to share where you would like to visit.  I would love to hear all about your travel bucket list!

T is for Timeless

Timeless: things that never go out of style

Some things never go out of style.  I love walking through antique shops and thrift stores.  There just is something about old objects that is fun to check out.  Lately, since I bought myself an old record/tape player, I have this new passion about old music.

I am a child of the 80s and 90s and that is where a lot of my favorite music lives.  Sometimes my kids love listening to my old favorites; other times they make farting noises until I change the song.  You win some, you lose some.  One particular artist that they have come to love is Michael Jackson.  They both saw the recent movie about Michael and loved it.  They were not the only ones.  If you have not yet seen Michael, what are you doing with your life?  Get out and find it to stream today.  I watched it twice in the theater and would go more times if allowed.  It is so good.  Michael's nephew, Jaafar Jackson, does an amazing job playing his uncle.  He moves and sounds just like Jackson.  

Now, since the movie came out I thought it would be cool to have a physical copy of one of Michael's albums.  During the 80s and 90s, I was buying cassette tapes.  With my new player, I can again enjoy tapes.  I looked about a month ago at one of my favorite record stores for Thriller and found a copy that was priced at 15 dollars.  I have this deal with myself that I won't spend more than ten dollars on any album, so I walked away, even though I was sad about it.

Things happen for a reason, and while in Wisconsin a few weeks ago with my sister, Andi, we did one of my favorite things: thrifting.  We went to one of my favorite places near my Dad's house called: St. Vincent's De Paul. I looked for clothes with no luck, found a cool pair of black Converse All-Stars for 8 bucks, and was ready to hit the checkout, but then noticed the media section.  There were countless CDs, and a few tapes.  And then...there it was staring back at me: Thriller by Michael Jackson. NO WAY! I was sure it would be priced up from their usual 1.75 price, so I was shocked to see it wasn't when I flipped it to the back and saw the price sticker.  Heaven.  I was in heaven and so glad I didn't pay 15 for it.  

There is nothing like the nostalgia old tapes and vinyl records give me and as I have listened to this tape a few times, I am back in my moon-walking days.  Sometimes it pays to walk away and stick to your guns!

M is for Mania

 "Mania: excessive or unreasonable enthusiasm; the object of such enthusiasm."

                                                Merriam-Webster

What things bring you mania? Mania producing power for me is usually sports related, but to be different and make the creative juices come out, this will be the only time I write a sports themed mania.

I thought I would write a really long post about Ilona Maher and how rugby just makes me happy, but I have already wrote that HERE. Maher has recently hinted that she is back practicing in San Diego where the USA Eagles have their practice facility.  This truly makes me have Ilona Mania, but I am sure you will hear more about that over on socials as I pine about going and seeing her play this next season and in 2027-28 as she prepares and competes with her team in the Olympics in Los Angeles.  

The other sport mania that hits me every March-October is baseball season.  I follow two teams, which is contentious at times.

“Logo courtesy of the Los Angeles Dodgers / MLB.”

People with either LOVE, or they will HATE The Los Angeles Dodgers.  I have a friend who is my ultimate baseball friend. I love how I can talk to her about baseball and she knows her stuff.  We can talk until it turns to talking about LA.  She is a Diamondback fan and Dodger hater.  She is a good friend though because she let me watch a Dodger vs Brewers game in spring training when we went. That is true friendship there!

I went to my first ever professional baseball game when I was twelve.  My older "Californian" cousin took me and it was magical. He later saw me with a Dodger hat on and asked "Wait, you are a Dodger fan?" That game obviously didn't stand out to him like it did me, he was just taking his little cousin to a one game while she was in town with her mother while said mother was on a work trip.  He has been to a lot of games so I forgive him, and I also thank him for making me the fan I was.  The energy of Dodger Stadium and the fan base there is one of a kind.  And don't get me started on Dodger Dogs!  

In the era of Orel Hershiser and Mark Gibson and their 1988 World Series win, how could I not become a fan?

I also love my true home team:

Logo courtesy of Major League Baseball / Milwaukee Brewers.

My family didn't follow The Brewers as I grew up in Wisconsin.  We did occasionally get to a local summer collegiate game here and there, and I played softball, but we never concentrated on the Brewers.  Now, that could be because the Brewers have never, ever won a World Series.  It seems like if teams have a history of being better, they have a bigger fan base.  With the Brewers, we just keep a hoping. They did appear in the 1982 Series, but lost to the Cardinals.  Maybe this is why to this day I hate the Cardinals! In the past five years, they gave made the post season twice and they do really have a lot of talent lately, so the excitement is there but they often choke when it counts. Currently, they have the best record in Major League Baseball, but that could have changed before you read this!

It is hard being a fan of two teams.  Who do you cheer for when they play each other? My friends from home were glad a few seasons ago when I told them I would be cheering for the Brewers against the Dodgers in post season play, but then they were disappointed to see I was cheering for the Dodgers after the Brewers choked.  It is a rough life, but somebody has to be this kid.

Here is a baseball mania haiku for you:

Baseball mania:

What team do I cheer for now?

Depends on the day!

I'd love to hear what things bring you mania.  Comment here or on the socials...

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