1/26/20

Wait....What? No Coffee?

One of my true confessions last Tuesday was that I love coffee, but I don't drink it anymore, especially since joining The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints(back in 1995). 

There are lots of things that we, as church members, don't do that may make us a little peculiar, like abstaining from sex before marriage,  not drinking alcohol, not using tobacco, and not drinking black tea and coffee.

Most of the above abstaining comes from something we call The Word of Wisdom.  This revelation was given to Joseph Smith back in 1833.  During that time, lots of people were questioning both the use of alcohol and tobacco.  In fact, Joseph's wife, Emma, actually got Joseph thinking about the subject as she was tired of cleaning up tobacco spit from the floor where many of the early members of the church would meet.  Joseph sought guidance through prayer and received the 89th Section of The Doctrine of Covenants(which is a book of revelations given to Joseph Smith as well as a few of the other Prophets of our church through the years). 

In the 89th Section, it gives some guidance on many health concerns of the time.  Within the verses, it speaks of not drinking strong drink(alcohol), how tobacco is not for the belly but rather can be used on wounds(we actually have some in our house that we have used on bee stings for the kids), an urge to eat fruits and veggies with thanksgiving, use meat sparingly, that grain is good for the food of man, and that hot drinks are not for the belly. 

This is where the whole coffee thing comes from, hot drinks not being for the belly.  Over the years, leaders of the church have mentioned how herbal tea is okay, but coffee is still on the abstain list.  I think most of these things are to help us avoid addictions, like alcohol, tobacco, and caffeine.  It really doesn't feel like restriction to me either.  It actually gives me freedom.   

By following this Word of Wisdom, church members are also given this promise:
“All saints who remember to keep and do these sayings, walking in obedience to the commandments, shall receive health in their navel and marrow to their bones;And shall find wisdom and great treasures of knowledge, even hidden treasures; And shall run and not be weary, and shall walk and not faint. And I, the Lord, give unto them a promise, that the destroying angel shall pass by them, as the children of Israel, and not slay them” Doctrine and Covenants 89: 18-21
Hopefully, this little description of The Word of Wisdom makes sense.  I often feel that part of these guidelines actually are to help us learn sacrifice as well.  It makes us different, and sometimes being different is difficult.  I do love coffee, like I have said, but part of this life, I feel, is training ourselves to master self.  Sometimes we need to sacrifice in order to be better, learn more and live well.  I truly believe that following this counsel makes people healthier.  If you would like to learn more, I found a great site here that explains it well.  There is even a study UCLA that shows Latter-Day Saints who live this principle actually are healthier and live longer lives. I like that idea. Living long and prospering is one of my life goals.
If you have any more questions about my faith, feel free to ask.  I am pretty open about it!

1/25/20

Something You May Not Know About Me

I am a hat fiend.  It may be because I am one of the least high maintenance women on the planet.  It could also be because I am lazy.  Either way, I am a hat girl.  I think I may have always been.  I do remember seeing lots of pictures of me as a kid with a big bonnet on my head.  That was because I was bald and have very pale skin.  It was either the bonnet or blisters.  I am glad my parents chose hats, and I am still choosing hats.  This is the one I am wearing today: 
I got it when I was at Fenway Park the summer before last.  Lots of times I am wearing a Dodgers hat.  Right now, I am really looking forward to baseball season. I do have a hat from every ballpark I have visited.  

My husband is a cool guy and doesn't care if I wear hats all the time or not.  One time when we are still dating he asked: "What's up with all the hats?"  I had them hanging on the wall of my last apartment and he was curious.  "Those are my hats," I answered, "I love hats."  He then asked, "Why don't you ever wear them?"  I told him that I was still trying to impress him.  He said I should just wear the hats.  So, here we are.  He even hung them all up for me with special hooks when we moved to this house.  I love my little display and they are so handy to grab when I want a specific one.

I guess I will always be a hat girl.  When Z was little she would always make me put a hat on if I didn't have one on when I came home from work.  She couldn't even recognize me.  I guess hats are just a part of who I am.

1/24/20

Flashback Friday

I have had lots of adventure in my life.  I continue to have adventure in my life.  This post isn't a post about not liking my life.  I love my life...but sometimes I mourn my single and spontaneous life.  If I wanted to go somewhere, I did.  If I wanted to buy something for me, I did.  It was definitely a bit different than my life now.  I had a little of this mourning a few weeks ago during Winter Break when one of my friends just decided one day to go to Mexico the next day.  What a life?

So, for this Flashback Friday an ode to my carefree, single adventures:

That one time I won tickets to a Colorado Rockies game.
My friend Kristi and I just up and went for the weekend.
We had free box seat tickets, all the food and drink we
wanted, free airfare, free hotel, and 100 dollars to spend!

That one time I met Melissa Peterman with my friend, Morgan!
She did a show at Wiseguys in Ogden and she was hilarious.
And she was nice enough to meet every single person that
was there that night and take pictures with us!

That one time I went to Vegas to see Kelly Clarkson.
My friends, Morgan and Lesley, were living there so it was heaven
to see them and also to see Kelly again!  I made lots of trips to Vegas
back then!

That one time I went to Chicago with my Uncle Jim
and his son, Adam.  We went to see the White Sox
the first day. And then we went to historic Wrigley
Field the next day.  I loved this trip.  Jim and I both
share a big love for baseball and both of us got a bit
misty eyed when we walked into Wrigley.  I may hate
the Cubs but I love that field and the baseball history
it symbolizes! (Above is me at the White Sox game,
below is me outside of Wrigley Field.)


That one time I went to London with my Aunt Cindy,
Uncle Dan, Mom, and Mom's friend, Ruth.  We ate all the
good food, including the best ice cream by The Tower of London.
We also met The Queen, okay, we actually just saw her in a parade
while she celebrated her birthday, but it was still cool.  I also was able to
head to Scotland for a week solo to visit my friend, Mary Beth and her
husband.  I loved seeing castles and eating fish and chips on the shore of
The Black Sea.  It was also an adventure driving with Mary Beth as she
reminded herself: "We drive on the left over here."

That one time I convinced my Mom to go to New York City
to see Kelly Clarkson perform in Central Park on The Today
Show.  Of course, we also saw the sights including the Statue Of
Liberty.  Three weeks before the event I told Mom about the concert
and she said: "Book tickets!" and gave me her credit card.  What
a fun spontaneous adventure my mom was willing to fund.  She was
also willing to get drenched in the rain as we watched Kelly Clarkson
in the downpour!

That one time we cruised over to Madeline Island across from
Bayfield, WI.  We just lived our best Wisconsin tourist lives.
What a hoot all the adventures I have had with my Sister, Andi
and Mom, Sue!

That one time Marla and I spent a week in California.  We loved
the beach, an Angels baseball game, and locking the rental car
keys in the car.  Just kidding, that last bit wasn't a favorite, but
it does make for a funny memory.  Marla has always been one of my
best vacation buddies.  I don't even know how many times she rode
with me from Wisconsin to Utah while I was single and carefree.


I have had many, many more adventures, like riding the Cable Cars all over San Francisco just because I love riding them, while my friends went to Alcatraz(I had already been twice), I also loved Russia and all the serious people who thought we were crazy.  Single and spontaneous was a great era.

And now, I am mom and wife and I do less spontaneous adventure, but all the cuddles and kisses are one hundred percent worth the sacrifice of spontaneity.

1/23/20

Thursday....What I’m Reading

This book is so cool. It answers 365 questions about astronomy that the author has received on his website “Tvr Astronomy Cafe” I’m learning things I never knew I wanted to know!

This book is amazing. I read it mostly while I am riding my exercise bike. It’s Christian based but really hits the head on what the world really needs: Kindness!!!! I love Candace Cameron Bure in the Hallmark movies she’s in, especially The Aurora Teagarden Series, but I am also loving getting to know her as a person while she encourages us all to be more kind. Great read so far.

I am also reading a young adult novel that is okay, I just haven’t been giving it much time because I feel extremely busy and tired these days!

What are y’all reading? I’m always looking to bulk up my to read list!

1/22/20

Wednesday Wisdom: 20 Tips for success

1. Don’t pee into the wind.
2. Look both ways before crossing the road.
3. Wear your seatbelt.
4. Eat your veggies.
5. Call your mom.
6. Sleep.
7. Listen to headphones at lower decibels.
8. Spread kindness. Not gossip.
9. Use your turn signal.
10. Merge right except to pass.
11. Find your passion.
12. Do what is right, even when nobody is watching.
13. Choose to be honest.
14. Eat dessert on occasion.
15. Say “I love you” when you actually do! See #13
16. Be a leader.
17. Cry.
18. Look for amazing sunsets.
19. Look for the good.
20. Be grateful.