Flash Me Back...Friendship

  Flashback Friday is a place for all things reminiscence.  Flashbacks can be personal recollections or they can also be looks back to the “Good Old Days” of our collective past.

    

    Do you know Marla?  She is one of my dearest and oldest friends(no she isn't old, but she has been around a long time.)  You really should ask Marla about how we met, because I forget everything, but I think it was in one of our classes at John Muir Middle School in Wausau, Wisconsin.  I was a geek and said ridiculous things.  Marla was more cool but laughed at my ridiculous sayings.

    Marla has been one of my favorite traveling pals for many years.  The picture above is from a road trip we took to California.  Road trips have been a staple in our friendship.  Marla would often fly out to visit me in Utah and then we would drive to Wisconsin.  We had so much fun it should be illegal.

    Time with Marla is always easy and fun.  We can talk about so many things and have often been known to stay up until the wee hours of the morning laughing and chatting.  Even if we haven't seen each other in a very long time, it is like we have never been separated. 

    Here are a few of my favorite pictures from our wonderful adventures:

Here is Marla sledding in the middle of the night on one of our Christmas-time adventures in Wisconsin.

Taking in a Milwaukee Brewer game.

And a Green Bay Packer game!

Walking across The Brooklyn Bridge in New York.

Hiking to the Arch in Southern Utah.

Exploring Bryce Canyon in Utah.

    Since Covid has hit, traveling is out of the question, but as soon as this crazy time is over, Marla and I are planning another adventure, aren’t we Marla?

And for the time being, I am just going to sit here and smile as I think about how wonderful a life-long friendship truly is.  And I am going to publicly thank Marla for having my back and making me laugh for over 25 years.  Cheers to us! (and thank heavens I couldn’t find any real old pics of us!)

Quench Your Thirst

  Thirsty-Thursdays are a place to talk all things thirst. Thirst can be actual, physical thirst and direct us to the subject of tasty drinks, but it can also drive us toward a mental thirst, the thirst for information.

So. Thirst. You probably think about drinking something when you have thirst. But today, I just wanted to talk a little bit about what we all seem to be thirsting for lately.

Christmas was good. It had us focused on tradition and celebration. And then we took the decorations down. My sister said this past weekend that she was taking down their Christmas tree, and she was sad.

We were looking forward to Christmas for months. In the midst of pandemic isolation, it was something to look forward to. I think in life, the biggest need, or thirst we have is to look forward to things.

So, right now, what I am thirsty for is something to look forward to. I want things to go to and things to do. And guess what? I am making a pact right here and now to start planning little adventures. A date with my husband. A girls night out. The next writing group. Summer adventures. It's time to start looking forward.

I am not much of a planner, but I need to make plans these days. So...I am doing just that. Hockey, end of January with a few friends from work. Bowling or axe throwing with my husband, I must call a babysitter. The next writing group is already on the calendar for the second week of February.

What are you thirsty for? What do you need to look forward to? If you aren't making plans, do it now. You will thank me later; I am certain of it.

One Thing You May Not Know About Me...2nd (The Political Crossdressing)Edition.

 Writing Wednesday is a place for me to write whatever I want to write.  

Hi. I stumbled upon this post earlier this week and thought, seeing it is Writing Wednesday time, I would do another similar post.  

And then, I didn't plan the exact subject for this post, and then today our country's capitol is all up in craziness, so I am all sorts of out of sorts.

Image found here: https://fortune.com/2019/10/29/most-popular-halloween-costumes-masks-2019-trump-jfk-celebrities/

    I do not by any means like to be political.  I really just want all the people to shut up and get over everything.  Can we just at least have that? Agree with some, disagree with others and peacefully move on?  In the craziness that is this 100% weird and confusing pandemic life, can we get some peace, some rest.  Can we pull out a white flag and wave it and declare a truce?  That would be nice.

    So, the thing you may not know about me is that I am an unaffiliated voter. See, I used to be ultra Democrat and as the world has kept spinning and in some ways become more and more liberal in so many ways, I got stuck in the middle.  I wouldn't label myself 100% conservative, but compared to the party that I used to affiliate with, I am much more conservative than their platform seems to be of late.

    (This is the judgy paragraph so if you are sensitive to that kind of thing, scroll to the next paragraph!) Because of my experience in the middle, I really have a bad taste in my mouth towards both extremes of our political spectrum.  I think that some people are way out there too liberal, and others are way out there too conservative.  I think it is silly that we get stuck as a label.  We are either a Democrat or a Republican.  And then we sit here and complain about there only being bipartisan politics.  See, we have pigeonholed ourselves into this idea that a two party system is horrible and yet, we cling to one side or the other and have to stay there for some unknown reason.  The problem here is that we don't have a middle ground.  There isn't a "safe space" to agree with some on the left and some on the right. We have to be exactly one or there must be something wrong with us.  Instead of truth, we seek whatever fits our perception and agenda instead of looking at both sides.  We cannot even sit down with relatives and have a human conversation about in and outs, good and bad of both sides.  Nope, it's just me and my people are right; you and your people are wrong. It's just plain asinine. With a polar approach like this we can never work together on solutions.  We cannot hear the good ideas of others because we label all of those people over there on the other side as stupid and having only have bad ideas. 

    I have even been called a "political crossdresser" for pointing out the fact that I don't think you should be able to walk in to vote and just click a box to vote for just one party.  See, again, here is that dangerous space that makes us not be able to think at all.  When I vote, I research each person running.  I get a feel for their ideas and background.  I try to feel in my conscious who would be the best person for the job.  I look past the label of party and look to leadership and character.  I think about what they can bring to the office and what is needed in the open position.  I have voted for almost all parties(except communist and socialist.  I do draw a little line in the sand).  I think being an informed voter is our responsibility rather than being a party voter, so sue me.

    Overall though, I really just want to be a good human.  I want to try to treat people as kind as I am able to treat them.  I am doing my best, and I think we all can do better.   I miss the days when we would just calm down and let the election go when it was over and not cry like little babies.  And if you think I am referring to just this past election you are quite wrong.  Sure, I am tired of this endless banter about corrupt elections(even if I do believe there is lots of fishiness that did happen this past election) but I was also tired of the rants of "Not my president" the last four years.  We, all of us on any side, can and need to do better.  Unite.  Division is the enemy and the enemy is certainly raging. We are Americans, that is the only label I am okay with.  

    Well, so there a little tidbit about me.  (Okay, maybe a little of a rant too, but it was very therapeutic to write it.) Feel free to chime in on the discussion, but remember that there is nobody in all of this who is 100% right 100% of the time.  Humans are humans, people.  

Peace.  Love.  Hamburgers.

Alice out!

The Technology of The Ball Drop

    Tech Tuesday is a place for all things technology.  Here we will discuss both low tech and high tech thing-a-ma-jigs.

  

Image found here: 

https://hips.hearstapps.com/hmg-prod.s3.amazonaws.com/images/new-years-ball-drop-1606862641.jpg

Image found here:  https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-7842085/Millions-ring-new-year-ball-drops-Times-Square.html

 The end of the year is a big thing, every single year. People make resolutions and look forward to a reset. I think that the end of 2020 is an even bigger thing. We have all joked about what a dumpster fire 2020 has been and we feel as if the change of the calendar year may be just what we need to change the crazy chaos we have been feeling this past year.

    When the ball drops on New Years' Eve, I know it will bring many of you a sigh of relief and this is why today's post will be all about that ball. You have all heard of the ball, right? The big lighted sphere that drops every year in Times Square, in New York City? If not, where have you been? Anyway, I digress.

    Ever think about why dropping a ball down a flag pole was something anyway? In the 1800s, time was important to the shipping industry and the navigation of ships. Captains aboard those ships relied on an instrument called a chronometer in order to calculate their positions. Often, these would be a little off, so a captain, Robert Wauchope, had the idea of a ball drop on shore to signify a certain time each day that would help nearby ships set their chronometers. Cities built these fancy timepieces and the ball drop idea began.

    The actual ball drop in New York City to commemorate the new year first happened in 1907. The seven hundred pound, five foot diameter ball was made of wood and iron and had one hundred 25-watt incandescent bulbs attached to it. Artkraft Strauss, a sign company built it and for most of the 1900s the sign company was in charge of that ball.

    In the 1920s the wood was replaced with iron, making a four hundred pound full iron ball. In 1955, that iron was replaced with aluminum. It was much lighter at one hundred and fifty pounds and had more lights, a total of one hundred and eighty.

    The lights on the ball were traditionally white. But for a bit of time in the 1980s, it was red and had green lights on the top to represent an apple and the tourism ad theme of "The Big Apple."

    In 1995, the ball got a makeover with added aluminum skin, twelve thousand rhinestones, new strobe lights with 180 halogen bulbs and computer control. The new tech ball only dropped a few times because of the changing of the millennium in 2000 and the need for an even more special ball that year.

    The redesigned ball for ringing in 2000 was a Waterford Crystal and Phillips lighting collaboration. The new ball was made completely of crystal and had the latest of lighting technology, but again that ball didn't drop more than a few times because the ball was again redesigned in 2007.

    2007 marked the one hundredth anniversary of the ball drop and it was definitely appropriate to again redesign the ball. The old halogen and incandescent bulbs were replaced with newer and brighter Phillips Luxeon LED lights. A total of 32,256 LEDs to be exact. There are now 2,688 Waterford Crystal triangles, which cover the twelve foot diameter ball. This high technology weighs in at about six tons and has a color palate of about sixteen million vibrant colors.

    Up until 2008 the ball was set up and taken down each year, but it now is a permanent fixture at One Times Square atop a flagpole of The Times Building.

    *If you would like to learn more about the history of the ball drop, I found lots of info here:

https://www.timessquarenyc.org/times-square-new-years-eve/nye-history-times-square-ball#:~:text=HISTORY%20OF%20THE%20NEW%20YEAR'S,to%20signal%20the%20New%20Year.

    *I also found the wishing wall amazing.  Here you can make New Years' wishes and they turn them into a piece of confetti to be rained down on New Years' Eve participants in Times Square.  I wrote one for this year, but you will have to wait until next year.  Read about it HERE.

Christmas Cheer Via a Christmas Star.

      Media Mondays is a place for all things media.  From social media to news media we will cover everything concerning communication.

So.  This week something is happening in the skies that hasn't happened in nearly 800 years.  We will be able to witness Jupiter and Saturn being the closest to each other they have been since the middles ages.  This is called a "great conjunction of planets" and I am super excited for it.  Because this is happening so close to Christmas, this is also being labeled The Christmas Star.  Now, isn't this something to bring a little cheer to your season?  I find it no coincidence that this little miracle is happening now in the middle of a very weird year with the pandemic and all.  I am going to think of it as a special little gift from the heavens to us, showing us the eternal love our Creator has for us all.  The heavens have been a big part of the Christmas story too, remember the wise men being lead by a star to see the Savior in Bethlehem? So, Merry Christmas. Who knows if this was what happened for that great journey, but it's fun to think about, isn't it? Get out there and see for yourself today, December 21st.

    Maybe you don't know this about me, but I am super into all things celestial.  Looking up at the night sky is one of my favorite things.  I can tell you lots of useless information about the universe and beyond, and you can bet I will be out in the cold on Monday to see this phenomenal occurrence.  An extra bonus is that there is also a meteor shower going on at this time and that is an added bonus to this little gift on the Winter Solstice.  (Yea for the days starting to get longer!)

    Seeing this is a Media Monday post, if you would like to read more about the Christmas Star here are a few articles that I liked:

https://www.forbes.com/sites/jamiecartereurope/2020/12/18/how-when-and-where-you-can-see-christmas-star-planets-then-shooting-stars-on-the-solstice-this-week/?sh=727672625348

https://www.space.com/jupiter-saturn-great-conjunction-2020

https://www.wbtv.com/2020/12/20/are-we-about-witness-star-bethlehem-this-christmas-week/

Also, I am a slacker so here are a few Flashback Friday Pictures that could have been published last Friday:

Last year in our matching pajamas.

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Ellis at his favorite place in Green Bay
The National Railroad Museum.

My favorite tradition at IHS
Hoodies for all!

Baby Z with Santa at Ellis' preschool.

Ellis with Santa.

Christmas at Grandma and Grandpa's.

A favorite place to visit:
The Botanical Gardens in Madison, WI.