Meter Monday

I am a poet.  I said it.  I like to write poetry.  According to my mom, I am very good at it.  According to my poetry professor at Utah State, my poetry is worthy of lots of red pen marks.  Funny thing is that I let him convince me to quit writing poetry for over ten years.  I was young and didn't understand the value of feedback and editing. He happened to be a published poet, so at the time I just assumed I sucked.  And. I. Don't! I wonder what he really thought of my poetry.  Those red marks maybe meant he thought it could improve.  Mindset is everything, isn't it?

So, on Mondays I am going to share with you some of my poetry.  It may be new or old.  Here's one I wrote this week(and it is a work in progress and I now, after years of therapy(that therapy coming from being a member of The Central Utah Writing Project),  I realize writing is a process and really any piece of writing can still be edited.  If you have any suggestions about how to make it better, feel free to share it with me:

Sometimes You Need to Get Lost

My boots a percussion of steps
Crunch, crunch, crunch
Lead me through the falling snow
Wisp, wisp, wisp
To my favorite place to get "lost"
The literary goodness
Enhoused in Provo's hidden gem
Pioneer Book

Shelves stocked with treasure
I the miner who sorts
Organizing refuse from value
Thousands of books I'll never read
flanking the hundreds I will
A lottery is happening and there will be only one winner
I the crane in the crane game
must grab the chosen one
The one I will love or at least like

To read or not to read
That is the question
I open each carefully
Reading the opening sentence
Or a whole chapter
And I choose

Today it is teen fiction
But it won't always be
Thank goodness for weekly walks
And for thousands of choices
To become lost
And to find

All I Wanted for Christmas was....

This is the only thing I asked for, when Reuben asked me what I wanted for Christmas.

  

You may or may not know that I am a member of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints.  I have been since I was 18 years old and I still consider my choice to join my church the best one I have ever made.  (Of course there is another decision that is also very important and that was the choice to marry Reuben.  But that wouldn't even have ever happened without me first choosing to change churches.)

Each Sunday my congregation, or Ward(who happens to be the people in my neighborhood who are active members of the church because our church is organized geographically.), gathers at 9 a.m. for what we call Sacrament meeting.  Here we partake of the sacrament(commonly know as the water and the wine(but we use water)) and also we also listen to fellow members give talks about Gospel topics, testify of truth, pray and sing together. The second hour of our weekly meetings is either Sunday School, or Relief Society(Woman's Organization)/Elder's Quorum(Men's Organization. These meetings are set up in a classroom/discussion type of setting.  

Here is where my Christmas present comes in.  This year, we are reading The Book of Mormon and discussing it in Sunday School with one another.  I have been so excited for this, because this book as changed my life and when I found the journal edition of The Book of Mormon, I was even more excited.  Many of you learned yesterday that I have a horrible memory.  Well, having a space in the margins for me to jot down thoughts as I read really makes me learn and  remember more.  I also have a bible that has margins for journaling and it has been so fun this past year to read The New Testament again and be able to write my thoughts and inspirations as I read.  (Each year we read a different section of scripture.  Last year was New Testament, this year will be The Book of Mormon, next year will be The Doctrine and Covenants/The Pearl of Great Price, and the following year we will read The Old Testament, so every four years we repeat a section!)  Sure, I have read through these sections numerous times, but I learn something new and feel inspirations differently each time.  I guess that is because we experience different things in life so different passages hit us at different times.

For the first week we read the introductory part of The Book of Mormon.  My biggest question for myself is how can I be a better witness of Christ and his Gospel?  I'll let you know what the answer is as I keep reading.  But I have felt inspired to share my feelings about Jesus Christ more often.  So, here you are:  I do know that Christ walked on this planet.  I know that he willingly gave up his life for each of us to be able to gain forgiveness from our mistakes and shortcomings.  I know that he loves me and that he actually knows me.  He also made it possible for each of us to live again after this life.  The grave truly has no victory.  I, like the witnesses who left their witness not of seeing the golden plates that contained the writings of The Book of Mormon, also testify here that I do know The Book of Mormon is a true record.  It contains the fullness of The Gospel of Jesus Christ.  One of my favorite parts in the book is when Jesus appears to the people of ancient America and allows them to come one by one and feel the prints on his hands and feet.  I weep, as they did, when I read this record of a Savior that loves each and every one of his children/disciples.  If you haven't ever read this book, I invite you to give it a read.  But be careful, it may just change your life.

This post is part of my "Spiritual Sunday" posts.  Each Sunday I will write something spiritual. Feel free to ask any questions you may have about my faith or The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints.  And may you have a very restful sabbath!

If you would like to learn a little more about The Book of Mormon, check out this video: A 60 Second Explanation of The Book of Mormon

Something You May Not Know About Me:

I have the memory of a gnat.  Of course I have never met a gnat and had the chance to really see how their memory was, but they are so tiny, I am sure they don't have a whole lot of brain space to remember stuff.

I am not so tiny, and my head isn't either...so what is my deal?

I think it is the amazing DNA I have been blessed with...

BLESSED?  Yep, I just said blessed. 

I think my ability to forget has often...

...allowed me to forgive, when I probably wouldn't have otherwise. And the cool thing is that I can             forgive others just as easily as I can forgive myself.
...helped me be less anxious, forgetting stressful stuff makes it less cumbersome, both before it                   happens(I forget appointments all the time) or after.
...left more space for important things in my brain, like all the school mascots I remember, random             singer facts(Lady Gaga is fluent in French), and the ability to drive in the snow.
...let me hide my own Easter basket.

That last one was just for fun.  It is also one of the jokes I used to tell my grandma , who suffered with Alzheimer's.  "Hey Grandma, what is the best thing about having Alzheimer's?"  "I don't know, sweetheart."  "You can hide your own Easter basket."  She would laugh every single time I told her that joke.  My dad didn't laugh once.

I have a friend who often brings up the fact that I don't remember stuff, I forget her name all the time.  Just kidding.  I remember.  I also remember how irritating it is for it to be brought up like it makes me less of a person.  I do not find my forgetfulness as a character flaw.  Sure, it can be annoying sometimes or embarrass me(like when I forget people's birthdays are in February and actually send them a birthday text in November) but I mostly see it as one of my talents. 

Now...what day is it?

I don't forget what day it is except during long breaks from work(Oh blessed Christmas Break) and during summer.

What is one of your "talents" that some may find as a weakness?

Books of 2019

I can hardly believe it either!  44 books in one year, and over 10,000 pages, that's crazy.  It used to be I could barely read one book in a year.  Crank was too long and my longest.  I did mention it yesterday.  The shortest book, Civil War Heroes was actually a coloring book.  On one page they would describe the hero and on the opposite you could color the hero.  I am not the biggest history fan, so a short US History book was a wise choice.  I did enjoy The Light Between Oceans.  Great story line and I could feel like I was on an abandoned island while reading this tale about a lighthouse keeper who gets himself and his family in a bit of a drama by not being 100% honest.  I can see how it is the most popular on my list.  I also loved reading my friend, Morgan's, book.  I am the only person I know on Goodreads who has read it.  It reminded me that perfection isn't possible, but we can strive to become more perfect through the grace of Christ.

Below are the pictures of all the books I have read.  The ones without pictures are: 

The Set Up Man by Nick Taylor

Wisconsin: The Story of the Badger State by Norman K. Risjord

Rocks and Minerals by DK Publishing

Thunder Mountain by Zane Grey

Here are my Top Five Books Read in 2019:

1. Shoeless Joe by W.P. Kinsella- The way Kinsella packed in so many baseball stats and history stories just kept me wanting to read on.  I also love the whole idea of building a field in a cornfield.  Did you know MLB is actually doing it this next season?  Feel free to buy me a ticket for my birthday.

2.  A River in Darkness: One Man's Escape from North Korea by Masaji Ishikawa- This book was both eye opening and heart breaking.  I had read another book about N. Korea's propaganda and was intrigued to know more about a country that keeps its people under-educated and cut off from the rest of the world.  This is a tale of a man who gets trapped in North Korea through the choices of his father who is blinded by the promises of a better life back in his homeland and moves back from China.  The author struggles to feed his family and then eventually decides that getting to China is a better choice than remaining in North Korea.  His journey takes him miles through the wilderness and then through the Yalu River. I will not give away the ending, but really it is a heart breaking but wonderful read.

3.  Big Dead Dawg by Victoria Houston- Houston novels take place near Rhinelander, Wisconsin. My parents lived there for about eight years and my summers spent there were rich in fishing memories and made me love the area.  While reading these wonderfully written mysteries, I am taken back to that land and even to the rivers and lakes of Wisconsin(the three main characters are avid fishermen.). What a wonderful escape and mini-vacation to my homeland.

4.   Extremely Loud and Incredibly Close by Jonathan Safran Foer.  I am a fan of anything that intertwines the story of September 11th and journeys to healing and this novel doesn't disappoint.  A young boy loses his father but solves a mystery that he finds in his father's closet that takes him on a journey through the city and toward healing.

5. All I Really Needed to Know I learned in Kindergarden by Robert Fulghum-This collection of mini memoir stories had me laughing and crying.  My heart was warmed by the life lessons Fulghum shares and I was often laughing out loud by his great humor.  I am excited to read It Was on Fire When I lay Down on It, which I got for free from our school's library purging.

 And Here are My Bottom Five Reads from 2019:

1.  It's How You Play the Game by Brian Kilmeade- I thought I would love a book filled with sport stories from all sorts of well known people, both athletes and famous people, but I think it was just a bit too much and a little too long.  It felt like it took me the longest to get through.

2. The Rough Riders by Theodore Roosevelt- I did love all of the patriotism here, but again history isn't always my favorite thing to read about. Cool story and it actually was an illustrated book so it had amazing pictures. But you really shouldn't read things for the pictures.

3. Think Like a Freak: by Steven D. Levitt and Stephen J. Dubner- I actually loved Freakonomics and Superfreakonomics by the same authors, but this one was a dud.  It could be because they just mainly answered questions from their readers and, of course, the third in a trilogy is often sub-par.

4. I Never Had It Made by Jackie Robinson- I love his story and April 15th, Jackie Robinson Day in baseball, where every professional player wears #42, makes me cry.  This book though toward the end becomes too much of a political statement and a little too whiny.  I think the editors could have helped by chopping the last few chapters.

5.  The Emperor's Soul by Brandon Sanderson.  Sanderson is a local hero here in Utah.  He is a good writer but I just am not the biggest sci-fi fan.  It is rare that this type of book gets me.  I do like the ideas and storyline, but maybe I just re-read it one too many times.

So, what books did you love last year?  Which ones did you hate?  Feel free to comment with your favs and not so favs either here or on social media.

I bet you want to know what I am currently reading too:

1.  Kind is the New Classy by Candace Cameron Bure

2.  Thirteen Reasons Why by Jay Asher

What you reading?  What is your next book?

I won't stop reading, I just am not pushing for 40 books this year!

Reading Used to Be a Challenge!

One of my favorite places in Provo is Pioneer Book.  Every book in the store is a used book.  Almost all of them are in like-new condition.  So you get amazing books for used book prices!  It also is one of the coziest little stores.  I often find myself spending hours perusing the shelves. Like I did today!

One time Reuben asked: "Why do your Saturday walks take so long?"  The answer was simple yet complicated.  I walk 20 minutes to get there, look around for about an hour and then walk home another 20 minutes.  So, those walks often take about two hours.  I love this place.  The cool thing about the challenge is that you get a 50 dollar gift certificate for use in store upon completion.  So, you read books and then get to buy more.  Win-Win!  Today I bought three books and still have over thirty dollars on my gift certificate!

The Pioneer Book Reading challenge is truly a challenge and not just because it was over forty books this past year.  I used to hate reading.  I was slow and reading never got me excited.  But then one day, in my thirties, I discovered that you must be passionate about what you are reading and then you will do more of it.  The book really does matter.  I also learned from a very wise librarian friend that you shouldn't waste your time on bad books because there are too many good books out there!  And the cool thing is that what your friends may like may not be one of your "good" books.  It is an individual thing.  I don't always jive with the New York Times Bestsellers, and that is 100% okay.  Maybe limiting the category books can come from also added to that challenge of not finding what is really my favorite type of book.  For example, one of the categories this year was a book written by an author born more than 100 years ago.  I tend to like more modern stories.  Sorry Faulkner and Steinbeck.  Well, I guess it makes sense for it to be challenging seeing it is a reading challenge, right?

So, here is a little bit about the challenge(I'll do a bit more of this tomorrow, seeing this is getting to be a longer post):

Favorite Three Categories:
1. Book from the Sports section-I chose Shoeless Joe byW.P. Kinsella. It’s the book the movie Field of Dreams is based on. The book is always better than the movie and this is no different. By the way, I chose three books that had baseball in them this year, and I loved every single word!
2. Book from the Science section-I chose The Making of Memory: From Molecules to Mind by Steven Rose. I have found out that I actually love learning about science and especially about the brain!
3. Book from the Self-help section-I chose Flourish by Martin E.P. Seligman. Basically, this book is about the science of being happy. The biggest thing I got from this book is that gratitude actually rewires your brain to produce more dopamine and it also rewires it to find more things to be grateful for. The science points out that you should write down three things you are thankful for daily to get the most benefit. Try it. It really works.

Least Favorite Three Categories:
1. Book with 500+ pages. Eww. That is just too long. I chose a book that was written in poetry form because it was tons faster to get through. Crank by Ellen Hopkins is actually a good read. It’s about a girl who gets hooked on drugs one summer.
2.  Book by an author born over 100 years ago. Like I said a bit too old for my taste(unless it’s Shakespeare!). I chose The Pearl by John Steinbeck. It was short. The end. (And I really hated the ending. I hear many of his books are disappointing like this one.)
3.  Christmas or holiday book. The book I chose was actually quite good: Santa Cruise by Mary Higgins Clark.  It was just was hard because I had to leave it for a last category because I felt I had to read it around Christmas.

Tomorrow I will list my top five favorite books, followed by Friday and my five least favorite books.  I will also include a list of all the books I read last year, just for your enjoyment.  Feel free to ask questions/comment on here.  If you happen to be like my aunt and have a hard time commenting on the blog you can always email me: softballrita@gmail.com or message me on Facebook or Instagram.

Hope the first day of 2020 treated you well.  I just walked to my favorite spot and hung out.  Being off from work really is a dream come true for me.  I am already dreading Monday, but all good things must come to an end so you can have more days off in the future!